Is it wrong?
I was once told it was perfectly fine to like someone. Of course, it's your emotion and it can't be a sin to fall in love, can it?
What about liking someone who's attached then? Would that be salacious of me, knowing that that person already found her other half and yet still can't speak to her without harbouring the intention that I'd like to be with her? And is it going be more immoral of me to even try making a move?
Sigh. Why do I always have eyes for the girls that can never with me? Is it inevitable that my emotions are bound for damnation? Really, like I said before, why give me a heart when I can't feel with it? A pump and a valve would do just fine, wouldn't it?
If I'm gonna be condemned to loneliness, my life would be as good as over when my parents' time are up, and my friends settle down with their families.
What about liking someone who's attached then? Would that be salacious of me, knowing that that person already found her other half and yet still can't speak to her without harbouring the intention that I'd like to be with her? And is it going be more immoral of me to even try making a move?
Sigh. Why do I always have eyes for the girls that can never with me? Is it inevitable that my emotions are bound for damnation? Really, like I said before, why give me a heart when I can't feel with it? A pump and a valve would do just fine, wouldn't it?
If I'm gonna be condemned to loneliness, my life would be as good as over when my parents' time are up, and my friends settle down with their families.
well, there's a saying that goes: even the goalkeeper can score. i've never succeeded before, though. sadly. heh.
Posted by
Anonymous |
1:04 AM
Bro,
Firstly, there's nothing wrong liking someone. It's not something which you can control.
Secondly, there's ALSO nothing wrong with liking someone who is attached. I agree that it's immoral and unethical to make a move on someone who is attached.
Weird, you might say? Knowing what I did regarding my current relationship. I see that there's nothing wrong in making a move on someone whom you really really like but who is attached.
If you believe that you can make her happier than she is now (with her current bf), then I feel that you DO have the right to go after her.
It might sound farfetched, but at our age, it's the future which matters the most in a relationship. Can you forsee yourself being with her 5years down the road? 10years? Perhaps get married?
If you can, and you can make her the happiest woman alive, then carry on. You've my full support no matter what others say.
Posted by
Nig |
1:55 AM